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Many times, psychics will feed off of your reaction to them and continue down a route in that direction. Oil raises usefulness of all forms of ritual healing.
It's sometimes easier to continue in the current despondent condition, even if not ideal.

Attempt to remain away from psychics that only want to sell you a spell because this can get extremely expensive and numerous occasions psychic spells do not function. Look for psychic advice only when you are ready and open up to receive help from supernatural energy.